Read or listen to this sermon by Matt Perry.
If Jesus Is So Wonderful, Why Are His Followers Such Jerks? Now, aside from the fact that the women may have found great delight that this term usually applies to a male, you see why this question comes along toward Christians — some are jerks who are unwelcome, are unlikable, and are mean, foolish and disagreeable. Hypocrites at least try to put on a good face — this other category feels it’s their duty to “just be who they are,” even
if its unChristlike.